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Update 1432: While this has been a very tough week (we english guys are known for being a little understated at times), racing does continue and some standouts are running this weekend. 2006 Horse of the Year Invasor is at Gulfstream (Horse of Year Invasor Returns in Donn Handicap) as the highweight in the Donn Handicap. Also at Gulfstream NoBiz Like ShowBiz and Scat Daddy clash in the Holy Bull (won last year in the slop by Barbaro) and Eclipse Award winner Miesque's Approval returns. Finally "First Saturday in May" star Brother Derek tries again at Santa Anita.

A couple more recent Barbaro articles:
Losing Barbaro
Derby Fever: 2006 Was All About Barbaro

Update 1431: From Dr. Kathy Anderson:

Dear Fans of Barbaro:

Although I have communicated with you indirectly through Alex and this blog I am writing to you now to share some of my thoughts and emotions at the end of Barbaro's journey through life. First, I would like to thank all who energized and galvanized our will to see this journey through --- your frequent messages and notes were very appreciated and a constant reminder of just how many people were touched by Barbaro, the warrior horse.

So, what of Barbaro? Please be reassured that throughout his hospitalization, and indeed his life, Barbaro remained in charge --- his eye did not dim nor did his spirit waver until the last. Most of you have come to know him intimately through your research but for me the best thing about him was he was first and foremost a horse, an equine hero to be sure, but always a horse with all that is so special of our equine friends. He was kind and talented as a two year old, he became increasingly confident as his fan base increased, and prior to the Preakness I believe there could be no happier horse ... nor human support team.

Following Barbaro's tragic misstep, we staggered with him, but like he, brushed ourselves off and carried on with the challenging task in front of us --- to bring Barbaro back into our lives healthy and happy. New members joined the team, Dr. Richardson becoming the visible "leader" with many behind the scenes caregivers. Despite the odds, Barbaro improved steadily, our hopes rekindled, our fears diminished and Barbaro remained constant --- day by day inspecting his kingdom and his servants with little patience for the slow or weak of heart. The critical week in July became the fork in the road --- he took the path less traveled and still managed to look challenge in the eye and gather momentum towards his future. In early January I took my children to see him, for I was sure that our next visit would be in a grassy paddock at the farm of his choice. He stood on that sunny afternoon, silhouetted against his large window with a panoramic view of nearby pastures, gazing intently at the lucky equines on the horizon, no doubt plotting what contortions and gyrations he would enjoy when he joined them in the not too distant future --- that is the memory I hold in my mind's eye. His inner peace and ever present confidence that all would be right in his world, his shiny healthy coat, his well muscled and conformed body, even his wonderfully naked legs with no wraps, casts or bandages --- just his badges of courage --- the healed but deformed right hind limb and the lightly padded left hind foot ... he was a portrait of health. True, he had lost his perfect body and the innocence of youth but now he stood as a battle seasoned wise warrior.

This is how I remember him, and although my heart weeps for his loss I know that he is now cavorting and challenging his cloud mates to those races that he was destined to win. I will see that bright spark in the eye of the racehorses I meet in years to come, and I will wonder if he is mischievously playing with me, challenging me to search for that intangible quality of "champion" amongst future generations. Certainly I am forever indebted to Barbaro for his gift of courage and grace which he bestowed upon us all from the moment he burst upon the racing scene in 2005. What a ride it has been "through sickness and health." Barbaro fans hail from around the world with diverse cultural and economic backgrounds but together we have found common ground and realize that heroes come in many shapes, sizes and species --- hail to the hero Barbaro!

Kathleen M. Anderson, DVM
Equine Veterinary Care, PC
Fair Hill Training Center, MD

Update 1430: Fair Hill felt warm this morning, I guess everything is relative! I rode six, the same six as yesterday. All went well. Hawty Creek is really doing well at the moment, there may be a race for her tuesday of next week, or the following weekend, so I just need to try to keep her ticking over. She galloped a strong mile and a half this morning. Chesapeake City Slew and Nonpariel also galloped well. They are both working an eighth tomorrow, together, so Tim will be riding one of them I guess. Flash was cool (he garners attention out there). My other two were also good. The Tapeta carpet was just that, like galloping on a carpet. As I was grazing Hawty Creek later in the morning Kathy Anderson stopped by. She wanted me to post something to this site about her reflections of Barbaro. That will be the next update.

Update 1429: Here are some more of the many articles that have been recently posted:

Barbaro's legacy positive
Kentucky horsemen recall Barbaro's early days
Vet: Barbaro was 'different horse' in final hours
Barbaro's birth stall stands empty
Lessons Learned From Barbaro
Barbaro's painter recalls horse's strength
Steve Haskin: Reflections on Barbaro and His Fight for Life
Barbaro's Plight Shined a Light on Advances
Matz soldiers on with Barbaro gone

The Barbaro Fund hats have raised $15,400 for the Barbaro Fund. I am not sure yet if more will be made available.

Comments

Being on this great website with you good people is as good as it gets.

Thank you.

Posted by: Rob at February 2, 2007 10:55 AM

I still check this site first thing every morning. It helps.

Posted by: Katherine Dillard at February 2, 2007 11:00 AM

Barbaro,
You made me laugh, you made me cry
You challenged me and enlightened me
Yow renewed my faith
You taught me to live every day like it's my last
You taught me to eat when I'm hungry, rest when I'm tired, and love uncondiontionally
You made me look deep within myself
You played the cards you were dealt with dignity
and grace
Yes, grief is the price we pay for loving you,
My sweet warrior, you were/are worth the price
You are alive in my heart, forever.

Harriette Brillianthawk

Posted by: Harriette Brillianthawk at February 2, 2007 11:10 AM

Good morning, Barbaro! Good morning, Alex! Good morning, fellow Fans!

I am ready again today to do Barbaro's work.

Thank you, Alex.

Marg
Proud Fan of Barbaro forever

Posted by: Marg in Maine at February 2, 2007 11:21 AM

Alex, thank you for leaving this section of the site open. We will have lots to do.

Posted by: Vonda in Virginia at February 2, 2007 11:22 AM

Thanks for the articles Alex and look forward to the descriptions of the mornings at Fair Hill.

Channel 6 news (ABC) in delaware had a short spot on Barbaro's Fund that was established on laminitis.

Posted by: LYNNETTE at February 2, 2007 11:29 AM

I still check the site first thing too. It helps me to connect with everyone. Thank you so much Alex for helping us all stay together in this way.

Posted by: Weese at February 2, 2007 11:30 AM

Good Morning FOBs!
jan

Posted by: jan at February 2, 2007 11:35 AM

Hello Alex. I hope you are doing well. Thank you for everything you have done to keep us informed about Barbaro. This has been heartbreaking to say the least. Something Sue McMullen said resonated with me. I have to have a procedure done on my heart next Friday. She wondered if anyone had "drawn comfort from that colt's great spirit." I have. When ever I become frightened, I think of him.

On a different note, I have thoroughly enjoyed the out takes from "The First Saturday In May." I love seeing Barbaro interact with young Alex Matz. Sabina's picture of you with Barbaro (and comments) made me smile too. Take care and keep us informed about Hawty Creek.

Posted by: Laura in Monroe, GA at February 2, 2007 11:39 AM

Good morning, Alex and all FOB's

We will get through this together.

Love you FOREVER, big fella.

Posted by: Judy in Nazareth, PA at February 2, 2007 11:41 AM

Alex,
Thank you for the continuity TWR and the Discussion board provides in a time when our hearts are in tatters. Many of us are looking forward to making a difference in the life of horses and rallying ''neath the colors of the Barbaro banner.

I stared for the longest time at the shot of you and Barbaro looking straight into Sabina's camera... the one where Bobby was having fun biting you, but like a true ham, stopped to mug when the clicking started. That photo is one the most direct, powerful looks at Barbaro I have experienced, having missed seeing him in person. Bobby's gaze was like a handshake that stayed firm as long as I held on. It was Wow!

You look great too, Alex, and you're looking right into the camera as well.

Alex, check your bag where you keep your clippers, you might find a little hank of Bobby's mane... by definition it would be a "relic",i.e., a piece of the body or a personal item of a saint. Something to bring back that day many years from now.


God bless Barbaro. Run with the wind Bobby!

Posted by: Terry Lilly at February 2, 2007 11:41 AM

Good Morning Alex and FOB's.

Alex I hope your doing Ok. Thanks for keeping this site running. It helps to read reflections from others to ease the loss.

CANDLE ALERT!!!!!!!!!!!

2276 candles burning. We should try to get this up to over 3000 today. Challenge to Barbaro Nation. It only takes a few seconds. I light one every morning.

I hope you all are feeling better today. I'm still not understanding why it happened to such a wonderful animal. But time has a way of working things through.

Keep up the mission, there is so much to do.

Posted by: cal at February 2, 2007 11:41 AM

Morning Alex,
Again a wonderful selection of articles. Let us all be respectful of this site..

PPOP Positive Posts Only Please

Last night there was the post for
Zip Code for Heaven 042903-012907 that made me smile, thanks.

Big Boss Angle
you are my spirit in the sky, just like the song, Goin' up to the spirit in the sky -...You're gonna go to the place that's the best

I hope friends and family help Mr. & Mrs. Jackson, Dr. Dean and NBC staff fill the void that they must be feeling now.

Posted by: Michelle at February 2, 2007 11:52 AM

Good morning all. Still feeling horrid but getting great comfort from all of you. You are the best!

Posted by: Stu at February 2, 2007 11:54 AM

RIKKI

Thanks for that website. I will look into several of the rescue sites.

Posted by: Donna R. ON. Canada at February 2, 2007 12:01 PM

Good morning sweet spirit Barbaro.

Good morning FOBs.

Good morning Alex. Thank you for keeping this site going and giving us a place to all be informed and comforted. Again, what would we do without you?

Let's push through today, keeping our Sweet Boy in our hearts and let it continue to motivate us to work toward the greater cause.

Posted by: Kristina at February 2, 2007 12:06 PM

Good morning. I put Barbaro's little brother as the desktop image on my computer and it helps to see his happy young face. Each day is a little better, though reading the articles brings it back. Thanks for everything, Alex.

Posted by: Faye at February 2, 2007 12:07 PM

Good morning, Alex, and FOB's. Thanks Alex for keeping this site and the forum open. I don't post often, but I come here first thing every morning like many others. I've met so many nice people here. I can't tell you how heartbroken I was when I learned Barbaro was no longer with us. As much as we all miss him, he's in a better place now. And Barbaro, what was it like when you told Sec you won the Derby by a bigger margin than he did? God bless you all.

Posted by: Joyce Currie at February 2, 2007 12:10 PM

Hi everyone. Good morning, Alex. Thanks for all you do every day. I hope you are getting through ok. I think that is the best we can all hope for at this point.

So proud of Barbaro. He did such a great job on his journey. All the articles, video, and great comments here are such a comfort right now.

I can't seem to pull myself away from here. It's a habit I don't want to break.

Anyway, I am missing our boy. He really has left a void that I don't quite know how to fill. I guess that's why I keep coming back here.

Keep up the fighting spirit...just like our Barbaro, and we will get through.

Posted by: Therese at February 2, 2007 12:10 PM

Good Friday Morning Alex, Barbaro in heaven and fellow fans,

Well - TGIF I guess - somehow it doesn't seem so important this week. Day after day dealing with grief in its different stages changes things.

the line from C.S. Lewis book "On Grief" states "they say that a shared sorrow draws people closer together". And I think in this situation it is even more so because we're talking about the loss of a horse. So many people do not understand the sorrow and pain we are feeling but at least here we know we can come and share and know that we won't be made fun of.

In Barbaro's honor I will continue the fight to ban horse slaughter until the goal is accomplished - no matter how long it takes.

Janice
a fan of Barbaro forever

Posted by: Janice from Florida at February 2, 2007 12:19 PM

I ran across this article in The Blood Horse,
about Mr. & Mrs Jackson who I have come to respect sooo much.

"They truly love the horse,"...It's not about them"
How profetic and

Check out the date April 29, 2006...chills

The 29 effect continues

anyway here is the link
http://www.nicoma.com/pdf/BH-Jaksons.pdf

Posted by: Michelle Elkin at February 2, 2007 12:22 PM

Good mornin all FOB's. Off to light some candles and say some prayers. Barbaro still a shining light.........I believe in Barbaro............

Posted by: Lin at February 2, 2007 12:33 PM

Last thing I think about at night is Barbaro, first thing I think about in the morning is Barbaro. Thanks Alex for letting me come here-it makes me feel closer to him to have this site still.

I am slowly getting on top of the grief, ready to soldier on for Barbaro. Much work to do. Today I will write my legislators about the anti-slaughter bill. Time to get to work. Barbaro would want it - no, he would EXPECT it.

Posted by: Sheila at February 2, 2007 12:34 PM

I wanted to write a poem about Barbaro...
Here it is:


The numbing fog drifted through my brain

But still could not drive off the pain.

The throbbing, burning would not ease

I could not find rest or blessed peace.

They had tried so hard to put me right--

I tried too, I was born to fight.

I was warmed by the glow of prayers from afar

And by walks in the sun with my good Doctor R.

My Champion's heart and inner fire

Made Doctor R's cautions seem overly dire.

"Look at his eyes, how brightly they gleam"

Beating the odds seemed more than a dream.

But only a dream it turned out to be

Doctor R's warnings became grim reality.

I turned within myself to escape the pain--

The light in my eyes began to wane.

I wasn't myself, I tried to bite

The hands that had cared for me day and night.

I was only trying to tell them, you see,

"I know you love me, please set me free."

"I love you so, I would like to stay

But I wasn't meant to live this way.

I will never again run or jump or fly--

Forever restrained my spirit will die."

"My soul unto the wind is bound

I heed its call, its clarion sound.

To race with the wind and leave it behind--

A triumph seen only in my mind."

Those I loved all gathered near.

I felt their love, I did not fear.

Through the haze I saw the light--

Blue skies, green meadows, what a sight!

My earthbound chains broke and fell away

I'd been here before, I knew the way.

I felt the wind upon my face.

I could tell it had missed me, it wanted to race!

I paused to look back at my friends so sad,

Hoping they could think of me and be glad.

Remembering the good times, the glory, the races

Should surely bring a smile to their faces.

"What could have been" was not meant to be.

Of fairness in life there is no guarantee.

Our destiny is not always what we might hope

But making the best of it helps us to cope.

I know good things will come from my pain.

If others are saved, it won't have been in vain.

And for those who love me, when the wind blows your hair

Say "Hello Barbaro" for I will be there.

Posted by: Kathy at February 2, 2007 12:35 PM

Good Morning Alex and All -
Thanks for the articles, Alex. Thanks for keeping the site going so we are able to express what we are feeling. This week feels like it's been so long...

I am hopeful that you, the Jacksons, Dr. Richardson and all of us make it through the day in as good of shape as possible.

Hariette -
Love the poem. My feelings exactly.

Posted by: Pam M at February 2, 2007 12:45 PM

Kathy,

WOWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW.

What else needs to be said. Thank - You.

Posted by: Cal at February 2, 2007 12:49 PM

Kathy,

Your poem is just beautiful. I can tell how much you love Barbaro. You captured the essence of him so completely.

Thank you for sharing. I will treasure it always.

Posted by: Therese at February 2, 2007 12:49 PM

###
Kathy...Absolutely Beautiful...

Posted by: JOAN ROYA at February 2, 2007 12:50 PM

Barbaro, you brought all these great people together. We love you so. Thanks Alex Love and prayers to Michael Matz, we have been worrying about you Michael. You are the best friend a person or horse could have.

Posted by: jane at February 2, 2007 12:50 PM

Good Morning FOB's ane Good Morning Alex - Our lifeline.

Good Morning Our Dear Barbaro

We will get through this and continue on in his honor

Posted by: Jeri at February 2, 2007 12:55 PM

Good Morning Barbaro - hi to all FOB. I miss B so much. Will go and light another candle for him. I guess that will be a part of my daily routine from now on. Thank you again Alex for all the updates & the website. It continues to be a little comfort being with people who understand this pain I feel.

Bless you all today & bless Barbaro & his legacy.

I love you Barbaro - forever!

Posted by: Debbie Singer at February 2, 2007 12:55 PM

Hiya, FsOB! Yes, this is a morning ritual for me, too. To Alex & Tim: Thank you for keeping the Board open. Alex, I posted your photo with Bobbey in my office yesterday, as well as the one of Dr. R. with Bobbey and Sabina.
To Harriette & Kathy: Thank you for sharing the power of Barbaro with us all.
To Laura, yes, if I am worried or scared, I think of our sweet prince. He gives me courage as needed!
Is there planning underway for an event at FHF on 04/29? Or are people planning to go to Pimlico on Preakness Day for the running of the Barbaro Stakes? I'm not sure that I could handle the latter event this year, due to the recent passing of Bobbey. But I would love to meet somewhere on 04/29.... Robyn

Posted by: Robyn Hoffmann at February 2, 2007 12:55 PM

Oh Kathy beautiful.

Posted by: marie from atl at February 2, 2007 12:57 PM

Kathy,
Your poem is so beautiful. I think you have captured how so many of us feel. What a comfort for you to share that with us.
Thanks,
Angela in Charlotte

Posted by: Angela at February 2, 2007 1:00 PM

Good morning Alex, thank you for keeping the site open. you are the best!

Good morning Barbaro, have a wonderful day in Heaven.

####
Kathy, love you poem.TEARS

BELIEVE IN BARBARO
BELIEVE IN MIRACLES

Posted by: Carol Nichols at February 2, 2007 1:03 PM

No morning seems "good" to me anymore, knowing that Barbaro is not in his stall eating his morning grass. Still very distressed and anguished -- especially when I think of his last moments -- in his sling with mom and dad there, and his dear pal, Dean. It also pains me to know how grief-stricken Dr. Dean is now. He and Gretchen must be taking it the hardest, along with the staff who cared for him on a daily basis.

Don't know what I would do if this board were not here during this sad time. As others have said, whom can one talk to about this, who would understand?

This morning I changed the words, "Barbaro Updates" on my "Favorites" on my computer, to read: "UPenn". Just can't bear to even see the words, "Barbaro Updates", knowing that there will never be another one. It still doesn't seem possible. It's also hard to process the fact that his body is not even around. Does anyone know what the Jacksons have done with his ashes?

Finally had to sleep yesterday; had gone with hardly any sleep since the announcement Monday. So I see I have 849 posts to read!!

BTW, In all the articles I've read, I haven't come across any comments from Prado. Surely someone has printed an interview with him.
Does anyone know where that might be?

Posted by: Spirit Horse, aka Loretta A at February 2, 2007 1:03 PM

Good Morning, FOB's!

Harriette and Kathy, the poems are fantastic.

Today is better than yesterday. Still a few tears, but the grief is transforming bit by bit. I'm seeing many here on the board who are in various stages of healing and each of us will deal with it in our own way. But here is a safe place to share, cry, release.

Alex, thank you for keeping the site going. You've done so much for us.

I don't know if "Barbaro's Dream/Champion Heart" should ever be published. I have reservations about submitting it to Mrs. Jackson. However, I have a few more children's stories in my head - one of which would be about Barbaro and that one I would feel very comfortable about letting Mrs. Jackson review it. That would be the story where all proceeds would go to Laminitis research. It will be called "The Light in Lauren's Eyes". Also have a couple sequels to "Cassidy's Rescue" in my head as well. Now just need a good blizzard to keep me home for more than a few hours so I can get them down and work on getting them illustrated and published.

Alex, I plan on being at Fair Hill around 8 tomorrow morning. Will bring hot coffee and some snacks. A number of FOB's have requested I give you hugs...

Take care, everybody.

Healing, Love, Peace,
ONS,
Lyn Gilbert

Posted by: Lyn Gilbert at February 2, 2007 1:05 PM

good morning all

kathy--your poem is amazing!! thank you

Posted by: linda s nyc at February 2, 2007 1:06 PM

Good Morning Angel Barbaro...and that is what you truly are to us, An Angel.

We know you had another ACN.

Barbaro, I have pondered in my heart alot of things...maybe I can share, but I know now without a doubt you are painfree...running with the big boys...

Have fun...Run Barbaro Run!!!!

I thought of several incidents...trying the reasons, why, ifs, hows...

The Book of Job came across my mind.

King David with his son at death's door, and King David fasting and just laid there hoping God would heal his son. But when King David notice the servants talking, he knew his son was dead...King David got up, cleaned, put on fresh clothes and ordered a huge feast...the servants could not figure out why...and King David said, my son cannot come to me, but I can go to him.

I thought about, when I was a divored mom, my only son, Brian, 16...was with four boys that night, 2 miles from home...wreck..Brian was the only one killed...

But, Fans/Family of Barbaro...the love this horse shared, his inspiration, his courage, his spirit that lives on..through each of us...

Please do not give up hope...Barbaro needs us more than ever...to save his brothers and sisters.The American Horse...to stop slaughtering, to find solutions to problems, educate, find cures for laminitis, to help rescues...the list goes on.

PLEASE GIVE YOUR ALL FOR THIS MAGNIFICENT HORSE, WHOSE NAME IS BARBARO. BECAUSE BARBARO GAVE HIS ALL TO US...

Grief is the price you pay when you love...Amen.

Yes, we need to find ways...and Barbaro has open the door...let no one shut it til our work is done.

Have A Blessed Day.

Posted by: JOAN ROYA at February 2, 2007 1:07 PM

You are all most welcome. I'm glad you were able to get some comfort out of my poem.
I haven't posted here much, but read the site everyday.

Since Barbaro left us to go race the wind, I have had snippets of poetry running through my head. Finally, last night I decided to put them all together and see what resulted. It was like he was telling me his story.

Posted by: Kathy at February 2, 2007 1:08 PM

Harriette just read your poem. Wonderful!

Posted by: marie from atl at February 2, 2007 1:10 PM

Ughhh...........
I teach gifted education for grades K-6 for two rural school districts. My job has me commuting between three elementary buildings. All of my students know of my love for Barbaro. Some of my students from the school I am at today had found the Barbaro Beanie Baby as they were out shopping over a weekend and purchased it for me. The students were so excited as they had presented the Barbaro to me! That beanie has sat proudly on my desk ever since. I just walked in to my classroom and someone had taken my Barbaro Beanie, laid it flat and covered it with a Kleenex. On the Kleenex they had placed a sticky note with "RIP" written on it.
Not happy..................
jan

Posted by: Jan Boterf at February 2, 2007 1:11 PM

Good Morning all FOBs. First I want to express my appreciation for this site. It is like a shrine to Barbaro that we can gather strength from and give to each other.
Like all of you I have been mourning Barbaro and praying for comfort and guidance in finding meaning in all of this.
Kathy, your poem is so beautiful and brings tears and at the same time solace in a time of pain.
I haven't posted much on this site but I have been right there with you since the begining of this important journey. I have checked for updates many times a day, lighting candles and contacting my senators and members of congress for support of the horses. There are so many kind hearted people who care for Barbaro, Mr & Mrs. Jackson, Michael, Peter, Dr. R and as always Alex who has maintained the flame for all of us inspite of the pain that he is probably feeling.
I think we should use our stages of grief, especially the anger, to fuel this campaign to complete what Barbaro and the Jacksons started. I support all of you in your efforts to achieve that end.
I pray that God will comfort all of you and help you through the dark days and will delight in your efforts for reform. I want to thank all of you from the bottom of my heart for all that you have given me. I hope to meet Barbaro one day as well as all of you. What a meeting that will be!
Believe in Barbaro and believe in miracles,
JoAnne from NC

Posted by: JoAnne in NC at February 2, 2007 1:15 PM

####

HI LORETTA...Please let it be some small consolation to know that you are not alone in your grief. The "problem of other minds" is not a problem here. We know how we feel and why, and the pain is bottomless.

Yes, Edgar Prado had some things to say, a brief observation. It was sad, but from a very realistic, horseman's standpoint. I trust him to know Barbaro from the inside out. It makes you come to grips with the fact that maybe everything wouldn't have been alright. I will try to find it for you, but off to work now.

ALEX: If you are so disposed and have some extra moments, and if you can collect your personal thoughts, it would greatly comfort me to read some of your ideas and observations on this epic. I trust you with everything. I hope you're doing ok.

I am concerned for Dr. Richardson and the Jacksons. If there was anything I had the power to reverse, it would be this, because they tried so hard and cherished the horse so dearly.

Posted by: Christine at February 2, 2007 1:16 PM

KATHY: No one can best that poem! You should print it out in a beautiful font, and send it to the Jacksons and Dr. R. I think it would give them much comfort now, when they need it most. Send it by overnite mail. But for me, it's too sad. I wish I had waited to read it, because now I'm thoroughly dissolved in tears.

Posted by: Spirit Horse, aka Loretta A at February 2, 2007 1:17 PM

STATEMENT SENT TO US FROM SENATOR LANDRIEU...

"Barbaro was an inspiration not only to equestrians and horse lovers, but to all Americans. I hope that his memory will serve as added motivation in our continued fight for the safety and welfare of horses,and his legacy will serve as an inspiration to get the Virgie S. Arden
American Horse Slaughter Prevention Act passed through Congress."
Senator Landrieu
**************************************************

Hard as it is, this is the perfect opportunity to make our push. If Mrs. Jackson has the presence of mind and composure to open this door, we owe it to her and her horse to follow her lead. Through the grief of their loss, the Jackson's made a valiant effort to make the public aware of the horse slaughter issue in this country. If they can do it, so can we!

While I know we are all overwhelmed by sadness, this is the time to make our voices heard. Millions of people heard about the horrors of horse slaughter this week on Larry King and in several published news articles. We cannot let this opportunity get away from us.

In Barbaro's honor, please contact your congressman and two senators and urge them to join us. This is also the time to contact everyone you know and ask them to do the same. Right now the window of opportunity has been opened.......Barbaro opened that window for us and we can't let him down. We must continue his work.

This week we picked up 15 additional co-sponsors........AWFB (another win for Barbaro). Let's try to get AWFB every day until we end horse slaughter once and for all!!

Shelley and Debra


Posted by: ShelleyA at February 2, 2007 1:17 PM

Good Morning FOB's - You have all sure helped me get through the week. Thanks once again to Alex and Tim for this website. All of the thoughts and poems have been very uplifting and helps to carry on after such a loss for everyone.

God Bless All of you!!

Posted by: Karen MI at February 2, 2007 1:18 PM

Kathy
What a beautiful poem, thank you so much for posting it. I'm in tears, the words are beautiful.

Posted by: SusanO at February 2, 2007 1:19 PM

Mornin' Barbaro & FOB'S-
I'm so used to the schedule of the last 8-9 months & it tough getting used to things now.
Miss you Big B & think of you all the time.
Hope everyone is hanging in there okay & staying safe...I know a lot of places have bad weather.
Take care & I'll check in later.
Love you so, Barbaro

Posted by: Cheryl - NY at February 2, 2007 1:19 PM

Good morning all FOBs,

You are such a comfort to me after our loss.

The poem is just beautiful. Thank you.

I will light candles this morning. I have not been able to go there since Monday. Just could not bring myself to do it.

I feel so grateful today for his life. Also am framing the cartoon by M. Streeter. Just love it!

Thanks, Alex.

Sally in Louisiana

Posted by: Sally Lawrence at February 2, 2007 1:20 PM

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Wow Joan you definitely know something about grief.

Good morning Alex. I hope your morning rides are nice.

Good morning everyone. I hope everyone has a better day today. Okay I've got to get some work done today. I'll check in later.

Posted by: marie from atl at February 2, 2007 1:23 PM

Oh Kathy, How beautiful. I havent cried this much in days. That was just so beautiful. You have such talent, no "paid" poet could have ever captured the essance of our dear sweet Barbaro the way you just did.
Gotta go get some puffs now.
Love Verna

Posted by: Verna1 at February 2, 2007 1:26 PM

Good morning Barbaro Nation!

Our Bobby is shining down on us this early morning via the beautiful full moon in the western sky. Bobby is saying he's alright.

Very calm and peaceful morning. The first I've had all week. I pray the same for NBC and the Jacksons.

I'm a little confused about the "little brother" pictures Alex. Is this a full brother of Barbaro? I thought I read Barbaro's full brother will not be born until Spring? Do you know if there any pictures of our Barbaro to post when he was a yearling?

I love this website. Everyone who posts here is wonderful. Thanks Alex for all you share.

Isn't it amazing!... Our Barbaro is still winning... winning hearts over and over each day.

Posted by: Candy at February 2, 2007 1:30 PM

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CHRISTINE: Thank you. Prado's insights should be interesting. I do remember Dr. R. saying in the very beginning, when he contracted L, that it would make him more vulnerable in the future in
his other hooves. This was back when he did an online chat where questions were submitted in advance for him to address. So, it makes one wonder, even if Barbaro had completely pulled through from L on the left hoof, and the subsolar abscess on the right, and got released, before we knew it, he might've contracted L soon again, and been sent right back to NBC, and the whole ordeal would've started all over again, b/c as long as they could've kept him comfortable, they would have tried to save him again, especially since they had been successful the first time. That would've gone on for another 9 mos. or more, and at some point they still would've reached the same conclusion. And we all would've been even more grief-stricken -- if that's possible -- b/c we would have relaxed once he went home, thinking he was "home free", only to wake up one day and read that he was in trouble again. That would have been no life for Barbaro. But still I'm sad.

Posted by: Spirit Horse, aka Loretta A at February 2, 2007 1:31 PM

Alex,

Thank you so much for the articles. I am feeling very down today and can't bring myself to read them. I have been reading about Barbaro but just can't do it now.. maybe later.

We miss you so much Barbaro and feel sad.

Love,
Daphne and Pee

Posted by: Daphne at February 2, 2007 1:34 PM

I believe God loved Barbaro enough to give him to the Jacksons and then the Jacksons loved Barbaro enough to give him back to God.

Have a peaceful day my friends!

Posted by: GINNY - TEXAS at February 2, 2007 1:34 PM

Good morning Sweet Prince... been rolling in the clouds and sending me some nice flurrys?

Kathy that poem is absolutely beautiful. Thank you.

Ro & Brady

Posted by: Rosemarie at February 2, 2007 1:34 PM

CANDY: What I understand is that the full brother yet to be born, will be the SECOND full brother. Roy Jackson commented on that somewhere.

Posted by: Spirit Horse, aka Loretta A at February 2, 2007 1:35 PM

Alex, thank you for continuing to update us, and for sharing the many articles. It helps so much.

Posted by: Bonnie at February 2, 2007 1:37 PM

Kathy, your peom is absolutely beautiful...as someone said earlier you captured everything. Tears again...

Posted by: lynnette at February 2, 2007 1:38 PM

It's still difficult to get up every morning and know he's gone: our magnificent Barbaro is at peace. The outpouring of support from everyone here consoling each other continues to help me. And this site is just a part of my morning routine (and all throughout the day) as it's been thanks to Alex keeping us informed and marching forward. Thanks Alex

Deborah

Posted by: Deborah McCullough at February 2, 2007 1:45 PM

Harriette and Kathy,
Thank you both so much, I cried of course but the meaning of what you both said is in my heart also. I hope you don't mind if I save them to find comfort again later? Did either of you send them to Mr. & Mrs. Jackson, Dr. Dean & staff etc.?

Good Morning Alex & Barbaro Nation

Thanks again Alex for all you do for us, for letting us still be here for each other. I hope you find some comfort & love from us too in your heart. You have many great gifts that you have shared with us & thanks are never enough, but I send them anyway. I also loved the picture of you and Barbaro, I know you will treasure it always.

To all FOBs from my heart to yours Love & Hugs, we have our tasks to do for our Undefeated Champion Barbaro, He is with us all!

Bev in VA

Posted by: Bev at February 2, 2007 1:45 PM

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Ginny, you are so right.

Remember,we have alot of work to do for Barbaro.
I have alreay contacted my Rep and Senators this morning. Let wake them up!!!!!!!!!!!

Maybe it might be a good idea to let them know that Delta and American Airlines have stopped shipping.

Try to have a good day everyone.

Posted by: Carol Nichols at February 2, 2007 1:48 PM

HAY Man in Havana had a workout!!! 5 Furlongs in 1:02.80. It was a breeze on the dirt. Not bad.

Posted by: Lynda Pellitteri in SE Texas at February 2, 2007 1:48 PM

SHELLEY A: I'm in LA. Is Senator David Vitter on the bandwagon yet? I know Congressman Bobby Jindal is, b/c he sent me a personal letter.

Also, IS THERE WORDING IN THE BILLS THAT WILL PROHIBIT PEOPLE FROM SHIPPING LIVE HORSES ACROSS THE BORDER (e.g., to Mexico and/or Canada) TO BE SLAUGHTERED THERE? Because every time I read something about the bills, it always seems to say that the transport of horse MEAT will be prohibited for consumption abroad, but I never seem to read where the transportation of LIVE HORSES will be prohibited. Can you clarify?

Posted by: Spirit Horse, aka Loretta A at February 2, 2007 1:49 PM

Good Morning All, it is so comforting coming here each morning to share and read your posts and know I am not alone in my personal grief.

Kathy, I can just picture Barbaro watching over your shoulder as you put your poem together. It is just beautiful.

Hariette Brillianthawk, Once again you've said it all so eloquently. Thank you,

Alex, looking forward to hearing of your morning. Dress warmly and be careful.

Have a healing day everyone.

Judy

Posted by: Judy (Ontario, CA) at February 2, 2007 1:51 PM

Ok, now that I have pulled myself together from reading Kathy's poem, I'll say what I came here to say.
I was here pretty late last night. It got a little heated in here. I am so thankfull to you Alex for still being here. Some of us still need this site, to come and be with the ones who understand, To continue Barbaro's work. Thank you Alex and Tim.
Back to that beautiful poem. Kathy do I have you permission to copy it to my computer, just so I go back and read it from time to time. I promis it will not leave my documents folder, unless someone from here wants to see it and I promis to repost it in full, with your name on it. You do need to print it up, on some really pretty paper and send it to the Jacksons and Dr.Dean, that was a great Idea. I am sure they would appriciate it, for one can just feel the love you put into it.
Off to light a candle. Will try to come back. Didnt have much sleep, can hardly keep my eyes open, I just had to make sure you were all still here.
Love Ya' Barbaro
Love Ya' FsOB
Verna

Posted by: Verna1 at February 2, 2007 1:53 PM

Okay I can't stay away today.

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Spirit Horse - I had the same thoughts yesterday.

I am still grieving but this whole experience is bringing out my will to get involved again that has been dead in me more some time.

Posted by: marie from atl at February 2, 2007 1:54 PM

Kathy, that is amazing.

Posted by: Sheila at February 2, 2007 1:54 PM

Thank you, Alex, and thank you all FOBs for just being there. You restore my faith in human nature. There are good people in the world, just have to know where to look.

Miss you Barbaro. Look forward to the day when I can see your velvety nose and insightful eyes in heaven. I'm a better person for having known you.

Posted by: laura, nc at February 2, 2007 1:56 PM

When will this pain ease? I ache so much every day for you Barbaro. My tears flow freely. I pray that time will ease the sadness I feel. We all wanted a miracle for you. We needed it so, so much. At least we had you for 8 more months. Rest in peace, beautiful sweet Barbaro. I still come here each day, praying to see "another comfortable night". At least I know you will not suffer anymore, and you are at peace in Heaven.

Posted by: Tricia at February 2, 2007 1:58 PM

Kathy -
What a very beautiful, touching poem. It has been such a difficult week for all of us, but your inspiration through your words will help us as we move forward. Thank you so much.

Pam

Posted by: Pam M at February 2, 2007 1:59 PM

Thank you so much Alex for sharing and keeping us informed all these months. Thank you for all the wonderful links.

Bless you Barbaro..may you run in a field of gold!

Linda NE Philadelphia

Posted by: Linda Jones at February 2, 2007 1:59 PM

Again, I find myself coming to this site for some sort of peace and reflection. Thank you so much for keeping it available to all who share in this difficult moment in time....
I worked for the PA House of Representatives for many years, have since retired to have kids....I know that if you want legislation past you must strike while the iron is "hot". They are very interested in supporting a cause and making front page news, so if the horse slaughter legislation is pushed and pushed extremely hard right now, it might find more support for its passage. If time passes and it is not fresh in the legislators minds they have a way of putting it on a back burner. I hope to heavens this is not the case and that this legislation can be passed as a way to thank the Jackson's for sharing their beloved Barbaro with us and to honor his great memory....God Bless Barbaro today and always!

Posted by: Nancy at February 2, 2007 1:59 PM

GOOD MORNING HANDSOME!!

You brought us snow here in Nashville....first we have had in years. I love you sweet prince and don't worry, we will contiue on and fight in your HONOR for your brothers and sisters.

Kathy,

SO BEAUTIFUL!! I am in tears again, you captured our boy so well. While reading your poem it was like Barbaro was "reading" it to me. So comforting....THANK YOU!!!

Love to all....

Karen - TN

Posted by: Karen at February 2, 2007 2:02 PM

Thank you, Alex. I hope you are well, and are being comforted by the wonderful memories of your times with Barbaro.

There remains such grief. But it does help to be able to read these great articles about our boy. So thank you, Alex, for all you are doing, and do, everyday.

Posted by: Ann (Maryland) at February 2, 2007 2:03 PM

GOOD MORNING BARBARO ANGEL AND FOBS.

#GINNY...oh my, what a lovely thought.
Repost:
I believe God loved Barbaro enough to give him to the Jacksons and then the Jacksons loved Barbaro enough to give him back to God.
Posted by: GINNY - TEXAS at February 2, 2007 1:34 PM

Posted by: Sarah From NC at February 2, 2007 2:06 PM

Good Morning Alex and all FOBs

I cannot start my day without coming to this site, thanks Alex for giving all of us a place to get together. Barbaro is still our miracle in progress. We have so much to do in honor of him.

Kathy, your poem is just wonderful.You have put into words how we all feel. Please consider sending a copy to Mr and Mrs Jackson and Dr Richardson.

Ginny, your words are so true "I believe God loved Barbaro enough to give him to the Jacksons and then the Jacksons loved Barbaro enough to give him back to God." I believe the Jacksons would be comforted to hear your words.

Harriet, l loved your poem too. As I said above, please consider sending a copy to the Jacksons' and Dr R. Their hearts are huring.

Sharri

Posted by: Sharri in Ohio at February 2, 2007 2:13 PM

Kathy that was beautiful. I thought I was finished crying...

Would someone be able to list the contacts for senators and reps again and what the process is for contacting them about the slaughter issues?

Thanks,
Peggy

Posted by: Peggy at February 2, 2007 2:14 PM

Good morning Alex, good morning all.
I've made my donation to the Laminitis fund, called on Congressman Norm Dicks about the Anti-Slaughter bill (which was like preaching to the choir) and keep huddling here in the morning for warmth.

But the best therapy for me was taking some apples and baby carrots to the 8 local horses at the pasture nearby and get my hands tickled by those great big nibbley lips. Try it if you can - It helps!

NINA: Your post amazed me! I am an Apollomaniac too, and didn't want to mention the significance of this past week (which I thought no one else knew of). But oddly enough Jan31 last year, my dog tore his ACL and couldn't walk for 5 or 6 months. Finally over that, yesterday he tore something in his front leg and can't walk again- a year and a day later - during the dreaded week. (we're on our way to the vet today)
Say hi to whomever it is you know, Jim, Frank or Bill!

Posted by: Smitty at February 2, 2007 2:16 PM

This message is for those of you who may be from Maryland... though I am sure letters from outsiders wouldn't hurt. Maryland has been debating allowing slot machine gambling. It has been controversial, to say the least. The proposal that has had the most support is allowing slot machines only at horse racing venues. This has still met a lot of opposition. One of the arguments for it is that it will help support the horse racing industry.

Now, if the argument against putting in safer, synthetic tracks is its expense, then my proposal is to allow slots at race tracks only if they upgrade to safer tracks and maintain a good safety record. Putting this caveat on will make the measure more popular with the public, especially now. And, since Barbaro was injured on a Maryland track... the state would be making a good will gesture which would bring the state positive publicity. Strengthening the horse racing industry would bring in tourist dollars, so it could be a win-win proposition.

I've written my state legislators with this suggestion. I invite fellow Marylanders to do the same.

Posted by: Jacalyn at February 2, 2007 2:18 PM

Ok...I am starting to feel a little composure, but
then I come to our site and the tears start to flow.
My boyfriend gently said last nite "When is it time
to just say good bye to Barbaro..how long does this
last?" He got the "look" and said no more!
If you get the chance go to the Forum under "Barbaro"
and read the thread "Cartoons from Cagle".
Really cute...brought a tear and then a BIG smile!
Enjoy the day my Barbaro Buds!!!

Posted by: Lynn in Austin, Tx at February 2, 2007 2:19 PM

Kathy~ BEAUTIFUL poem and written from deep in the heart. Thank you.... The tears have started all over again.

Alex~ let us know how you're doing. Thank you for keeping this site open.

Barbaro~ romp with the angels, roll in the clouds & send us some kisses from heaven. I love you.

Posted by: Judy in CT at February 2, 2007 2:19 PM

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PAMELA: (I think that's your name.) Someone posted here a couple of days ago -- I think it was PAMELA -- that she was a professional (grief) counselor. I have a question:

Like others here, I have to keep coming to this board to read up on all things Bobby...b/c it was part of our "ritual" while he was alive. Now that we're devastated, and still in the stage of utter disbelief, it's a "MUST" in order to stay sane, and go through the grieving with others of like mind.

So my question is...can one go on TOO LONG continuing to "stay with Barbaro", or should one move away -- after a time -- from continuing to go over and over this by coming to the board to discuss Barbaro on a regular basis?

In other words, can this behavior wind up being something like the mother who, after losing a child, keeps his bedroom exactly the same, just as it was the day the child died? Which, of course, keeps her in a state of mind whereby she becomes UNABLE to fully heal, b/c in a way, by keeping his room intact, it's almost like she's not accepting that her child is truly gone. So she stays tied to that grief, rather than moving forward by storing his things, or giving some of them away, and getting on with her life by realizing that he's never coming back to that bedroom.

Is that a fair analogy of what we could do to ourselves...over too long a time...if we keep coming here "crying"?

If Pamela's not out there, are there any other professionals in this field who can address this?

Posted by: Spirit Horse, aka Loretta A at February 2, 2007 2:20 PM

Barbaro have a beautiful day in heaven. Share your baby carrots,peppermints,pears and apples with everyone else up there. Hugs and Kisses sweet Prince.
Gods comfort to all the Barbaro Family.
Thank you Alex for everything,you are priceless.

Posted by: Melissa,Pa at February 2, 2007 2:20 PM

I have been admiring the strength and positive attitude of Mrs Jackson through all of this difficult time. I read that she has a masters degree in pastoral counseling. She is a blessing.

Pam

Posted by: pam at February 2, 2007 2:21 PM

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Kathy, the poem is beautiful.

Alex, Mr. Amazement, thanks for providing more rememberances of Mr. B.

TGIF to all the FOB's

As always, love ya Mr. B.
Edie

Posted by: Edie at February 2, 2007 2:22 PM

Oh Kathy. How beautiful your poem is. New tears for me.

Posted by: Kristina at February 2, 2007 2:24 PM

Wanted to share...The day we lost Barbaro just happened to be the day I was meeting my farrier
for my mare, Annie. It was so calm and comforting
to be with her that day. She is usually very fidgety when she gets her new Jimmie Choos, but Monday she was very quiet and calm. She would just stare at me like she knew what was up. Mom, of course, thinks she is very smart!! She does have the BIG, soft brown eyes like our Barbaro. She then nibbled on my hands...wow..that helped just being with her.
So go visit your horsies, your friends horses or just stop by and visit some horses in a pasture.
Very healing!

Posted by: Lynn in Austin, Tx at February 2, 2007 2:25 PM

Shelley and Debra and ALL-
I agree whole-heartedly about marching on in Barbaro's honor to fight slaughter. I cannot allow myself to wallow in my grief and let these moments slip away when we know America is paying attention to the story. It is beyond my comprehension how Mrs. Jackson could speak out about it one day after Barbaro's death (it's still surreal to even write those words), but my God-if she can do it then I can too. It would be so easy to just sit back and be depressed, but I really feel like we have to do this for Barbaro, and his fellow horse brothers and sisters.
Marlene

Posted by: Marlene at February 2, 2007 2:25 PM

Good Morning to all,

I never posted much before Barbaro's passing. But now I find I need to come here for the comfort of being a part of the FOB family.

Alex - your dedication to keeping us all together is greatly appreciated. I am sure you are dealing with your own emotions over Barbaro's death. Perhaps we bring some measure of comfort to you also.

Harriett - your soul is so wise. Your words are guided by spirit & your heart. If we live by our faith, then we all know Barbaro is exactly where we would wish him to be. Free from pain, free from the confines of his stall, free to run on four healthy legs, free to feel the wind upon his face. It is in facing the reality of our loss that we mourn for him.

Kathy - your poem is truly touching. None of us would deny him the opportunity to be whole once again.

While we are all dealing with our grief, in our own way, there is the common bond of all of us being brought together here through our caring for Barbaro.
We can all continue to keep Barbaro's memory alive & work towards funding the cure for laminitis & pushing to get the anti-slaughter bill passed.
What better way to honor this beautiful horse? Perhaps, it will be through his death that he achieves his greatest victory.
KathyK

Posted by: Kathy at February 2, 2007 2:25 PM

Good Morning FOB's

For what evUH reason, I feel an unusual calm today. This is a stark contrast from the sad day I heard to news of Barbaro's demise. It is strange, but though he is gone I still feel him right here with us. Comforting us and letting us know he is alright.

It is a pleasant feel for sure.

Matt

Posted by: Matt in MD at February 2, 2007 2:25 PM

Hi Alex and everyone... and of course Beautiful perfect Barbaro..... I hope you are all doing better today...... I am going to put in a prayer for today.. I may start doing this on a daily basis for those who cherish God and his wisdome.
"I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten." (Joel 2:25)

Today's Word

You can break free of the hurt, the pain, and the mistakes of the
past, and recover the years, the joy and the blessings that have
been stolen from you. God wants to restore these things to you — not
just the way they were before — but twice as much so that you are
far better off than when you began. No matter where you are today,
or what happened to you yesterday, God wants to give you a new
future filled with joy, fulfillment and abundance, a forgotten past
and a fresh future! No matter where you are today, or what happened
to you yesterday, God wants to give you a new start and a future
that is better than anything you could ask for or even imagine.

A Prayer for Today

God, give me the strength to break free from anything in my past
that is holding me back. Thank you for being the God of new
beginnings. In Jesus' Name. Amen.

Barbaro you are our new BEGINNING!!!!! You have given us the "chance" to cleanse and start over. God used you to touch so many people. Who would have EVER thought that in the year 2007, God would have used a horse to bring them closer to you........... That is what I mean about the future.... I don't think any of us if we reflect back a couple of years would have ever even dreamed of this happening.......

Barbaro nip nip nip.... now if you nip my skates I will scream!!!! I can't afford to replace those.........;-)

Posted by: Nina at February 2, 2007 2:31 PM

Good morning to all on this Friday of a horrible week. At least we have each other. But we know longer have our Big Boss Horse. I can hardly take it in even now. It feels like a hardness pushing on my spirit.

### Kathy, your poem was inspired and beautiful.

I feel empty of words and just can't write yet. I'll just say see ya later everybody. BB

Posted by: Bobbie B. at February 2, 2007 2:32 PM

Good morning FOBs. Thank you to those up late with me last night when I was really down.

Ruth Stacey just emailed me. She is really hoping, as we all are, that the Barbaro ICU stall plaque will happen.

Posted by: chris byers at February 2, 2007 2:32 PM

The shock of Barbaro's Death has retreated and now the grief has settled in, the sadness.... I log onto the site every morning in hopes of reading the word's "another comfortable night last night for Barbaro..." and only see tributes and memoriams and repeats of the flawless ease of his win at the Kentucky Derby. I was lucky enough to see Barabro in the paddock at the Kentucky Derby, it was a quick glimpse of his face, but more importantly his eyes. Looking straight at me as if to say "Watch what I'm about to do.....and you will remember me". He was my favourite to win-even though I didn't bet-he was my favorite because of his eyes, it was as if he had been there before, I believe he's an old soul who will be there again this year. A far off whinney or a snort, when you look around, you can't pinpoint it to a specific horse...that's because it will be Barbaro watching.....

Posted by: chris at February 2, 2007 2:32 PM

Kathy...Loved your poem...what a beautiful way to
honor Barbaro.
Thank you for sharing!

Posted by: Lynn in Austin, Tx at February 2, 2007 2:33 PM

Kathy -- is that what he's doing -- racing the wind? what an incredibly beautiful image.

as several of you have said, it gives me real peace of mind to know that Edgar Prado was worried about Barbaro in those last weeks. I don't know about horses so I would not have noticed, but I do remember there was a note of caution from Dr. Richardson, even while he was talking about a new home. Edgar says the horse's head was down, he was not comfortable in his gait -- and Dr. R calls in a specialist, and they start the hard, hard work of giving the horse a future.

Kathy's poem is right. our boy wasn't meant to struggle to walk. our boy races the wind, without breaking a sweat.

go in peace, Barbaro.

Posted by: Kathy in Northbrook at February 2, 2007 2:33 PM

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LYNN IN AUSTIN: I saw your post just after I posted a similar question here at Timestamp 2:20PM. I guess the answer to your boyfriend would be that it's time to say goodbye when the stages of grief are over. Most of us right now still can't believe this has happened. It's not even been a week yet!

Posted by: Spirit Horse, aka Loretta A at February 2, 2007 2:34 PM

Kathy,
Thank you for your amazing poem. I actually heard Barbaro's voice while reading it. His voice is sweet, yet strong.

Sweet Colt,
I love you and miss you. You're my forever hero, and I will never forget you. I know you are always comfortable now.

Posted by: Amy A in NJ at February 2, 2007 2:35 PM

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In my opinion, there is nothing wrong by coming to this site for uplifting and keeping Barbaro in our hearts...

There are many of us who have lost loved ones, and keep close to our hearts...

But thanks to Alex's loving hearts...he has given us a place to share grief, happiness, love, caring, and getting the job done...the UNFINISHED TASKS.

Horses are being moved to Mexico, etc...we had to do as Shelley, Debra and others have asked...work fast and furious.

Run, Barbaro, Run.

Posted by: JOAN ROYA at February 2, 2007 2:36 PM

Hi Everyone.

Another huge thank you to Alex. I hope you're doing o.k.

Looking forward to doing good work for horses today (and everyday) and to seeing as many of you as possible in April.

M/M Jackson, Dr. R., Mr. Matz, you are in my thoughts and prayers...

Posted by: susan at February 2, 2007 2:36 PM

Good Morning Everyone,
I am having the same peaceful feeling today.We have to accept what happened even if we do not want to. We will go on and do what needs to be done for him in his beautiful name.

Good Morning Barbaro,
Were you rolling around up there I got a few snow flurrries this morning. Enjoy your day run free and bounce on the clouds. I love you.

Posted by: Renee Antaya at February 2, 2007 2:40 PM

BARBARO--

The way he sat wide the entire backstretch of the Derby and the as if in one motion moved to the leaders and thrusted to the lead and drew away--

His greatness was on display in that move.

THAT is the memory of BARBARO that I will forever have burned into my mind..

Posted by: mike c at February 2, 2007 2:42 PM

Thank you Alex for posting links to the articles.

Thank you to Jeanine for sharing your time with Barbaro with us.

Thank you everyone for the positive posts and a place to commeriserate.

Posted by: SabrinaS at February 2, 2007 2:43 PM

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Kathy that was just beautiful. It was hard to read at work, still missing our beautiful Barbaro.

Posted by: Sue H at February 2, 2007 2:43 PM

#Ruth, & Chris Byers, I too hope the plaque will happen. I'll help in anyway I can.

Judy

Posted by: Judy (Ontario, CA) at February 2, 2007 2:44 PM

I AM READY TO CONTINUE THE FIGHT TO END HORSE SLAUGHTER !

Posted by: chris byers at February 2, 2007 2:44 PM

to Peggy RE: Contacts
Here are the links to contact your Congressmen and Senators.

The link to contact your area's Congressional Representative is (copy and paste into your browser):
http://www.house.gov/writerep/
The link to contact your both of your state's Senators is located at (copy and paste into your browser):
http://www.senate.gov/general/contact_information/senators_cfm.cfm

Verna

Posted by: Verna1 at February 2, 2007 2:44 PM

chris: I am with you on that one. It is hard to be around race horses all the time but yet in another way, it is very comforting. They are helping me get through this. It is peaceful in the barn area and those horeses (all of them) are so very special in their own way. They love to nip and they love to kick their stalls. Some love to intimidate you when you walk by with those ears going back. One the other day grabbed my pants on my butt and wouldn't let go aaaaaaaaahhhhhhhh such a wonderful experience each and every day with them.

I am glad to you got to see Barbaro in the paddock... I do have a question though. Is it harder that you "have" actually seen him you think? I am still pretty out of it but I am getting better.....

Barbaro... NIP NIP NIP!!!!!!! Why did you take the blanke off of me last night and where did you put it? ;-) I can't find my pepperming candy either to take to the horses today. I could have sworn I had three big bags of it..........


With much LOVE 4-ever yours Nina.........

Posted by: Nina at February 2, 2007 2:45 PM

Thank God for this site. Nobody I know understands why I am still in tears over Barbaro's passing. I am grateful for the people here who can relate to the sadness and grief that I feel. I had to leave for vacation to Florida on Sunday, knowing that Barbaro wasn't doing well. I had very limited computer access, and used a radio to keep up on the news. It was very distressing. I heard the bad news at 1 p.m. Monday sitting by a swimming pool. It was like a bolt of lightening hit me. Needless to say, this is the saddest vacation I have ever been on, yet I don't think I would have been able to work at my job feeling so very sad. I had a bad feeling on Monday morning that Barbaro had passed. I was standing in my condo at 11:30 a.m. Monday morning, and the clock fell off the wall. I took note of the time, and sensed that Barbaro was already gone. To my deep regret, I was correct. All these beautiful posts and lovely poems by Kathy, Harriett and others are helping me deal with my grief. Thank you all.

Posted by: Tricia at February 2, 2007 2:45 PM

Mike C. I agree......when he pulled out front and you could see him see the turn and flick his ears and effortlessly accelerate past them all was one of the most thrilling moments in sports ever.......that one move alone was enough for him to be magic to me if he wasn't already by then but he was...everything about him always showed he had that move and more in him...his intelligence and heart showed every time you saw him....Barbaro--miss you and love you forever...
whitney

Posted by: whitney at February 2, 2007 2:48 PM

Thank you very much Verna!!

Posted by: Peggy at February 2, 2007 2:48 PM

Thanks, Alex, for everything, the site, the articles, the pictures, and most of all your personal reportings and insights. I, too, check this sight many times daily, and hope to be able to do so for a long time to come. It is a community that I want to remain a part of.

The pictures of Dr. R, Barbaro and Sabina, and you and Barbaro, on New Year's Eve, were so great - and so heartbreaking, because he looked so good. And in the one with Dr. R you can see his back legs, and he appeared to be free of bandages, and there was so much hope at that time.

Again, thank you, and again, I am so sorry for your loss.

Althea

Posted by: Althea at February 2, 2007 2:51 PM

I am still here every day, though have been quietly reading and not posting. Old habits are hard to break, I find myself looking for updates every morning and evening, it is very hard to adjust to the fact that Bobby is no longer with us :( The tears will finally stop and I will be able to celebrate his life, though a short one, and enjoy once again looking at all the videos and pictures of him in his prime.

I hope this site will continue as it has been, it is a wonderful site to keep up-to-date on all the horseracing info and also on the anti-slaughter issues. Thank you, Alex, once again for keeping us all informed and working so hard for us in the past!

Posted by: Ruth Ann - NJ at February 2, 2007 2:51 PM

Have been thinking about it. And I think Barbaro should 'go home' and be buried in Kentucky. Churchill or the Lexington Museum would be good choices. But, he needs to go home........

Posted by: Linda at February 2, 2007 2:53 PM

mike c.,
A sublime performance. Poetry in motion.

Posted by: Renee Antaya at February 2, 2007 2:54 PM

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MIKE C - my "Derby moment" was that wonderful picture of Barbaro with all four feet off the ground - our boy was flying!!!


I love you and miss you, sweet angel Barbaro!
You are and always will be the
CHAMPION OF MY (BROKEN) HEART!
Nancy

Posted by: Nancy in CT at February 2, 2007 2:55 PM

For Barbaro's Kid Brother
(and the kid in the Big Boss Hoss, )

From PRAYERS FROM THE ARK
by Carmen Bernos De Gasztold
(out of print)

O God, the grass is so young!
My hooves are so full of capers.
....
I race and the mane catches the wind.
I race and Your scents beat on my heart.
I race, falling over my own feet in my joy,
because my eyes are too big and I am their
prisoner....


Posted by: Marydel at February 2, 2007 2:56 PM

Good morning all FOB's,
In order to honor Barbaro, I have made a promise to myself that I am going to light a candle at gratefulness.org each day until a memorial is built for him. I don't care if there is only one candle lit until then. The light of his spirit will shine on. If anyone wants to join me, please do.

Sweet spirit, run on!!

Posted by: Patty in Dallas at February 2, 2007 2:56 PM

Nancy in CT,
That picture is my favorite...it is pure perfection.

Posted by: Renee Antaya at February 2, 2007 2:58 PM

Hi everyone, here is PA it is COLD AND SNOWING, the Groundhog did not see his shadow,so we will have a early SPRING. April 29, is just around the corner and we need to call our Rep and Senators to get this bill passes, so when we meet the celebration of Barbaro life will be even sweeter.

Keep your chin up and your hearts warm!

Posted by: Carol Nichols at February 2, 2007 2:58 PM

Robyn and anyone else interested in a Fair Hill weekend on April 29, Barbaro's birthday, plans are on the discussion forum, http://forums.delphiforums.com/timwoolley/messages/?msg=4775.1

I hope lots of us can be there.

Karen in MD

Posted by: Karen Gardner at February 2, 2007 2:58 PM

Kathy

Thank you for the poem. May I keep it as well?

I would love for someone to set these words to music....


Also still looking for someone to find or repost

Because of Barbaro.

A poem that was written several months ago and described how Barbaro had impacted all of our lives and opened many hearts.

Barbaro, I am sad you had to go away so soon, but I understand...I am not mad. I know you are having fun. Thank you for just being you.
Hey by the way, we are gonna take real good care of your kid brothers too okay?. You stick real close by them and teach them a thing or too also will ya? We are all also gonna help take care of your Mom and Dad and eVerBuDdY that loves you. We promise. We promise.

Okay..you go off now and run.

YEr PaL
Leslie in MN

Posted by: Leslie in MN at February 2, 2007 3:00 PM

good morning FOB's. Thank you, Alex for keeping this site open for us. How lucky you were to have been warmed by Barbaro's radiant presence. We never combed his mane through our fingers, we never caressed the velvet muzzle, felt the nibbling lips, worked the curry brush over his flanks. But the Jacksons saw fit to share him with us, with the world, and the world continues to mourn. Indeed, some are just making their way to this site.
We will go on our way eventually, setting Barbaro like a secret seal on our hearts, hopefully working for the good of horses everywhere--not just here, as Mrs. Jackson asked, but around the world. And anything we can do to honor the Jackson's choices and wishes should be done.
This site can keep The Barbaro Nation knit together and focused on causes that need our attention.

Margaret Mead said: "Never doubt that a small
group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has."

So keep on keeping on, FOB's. We owe these people and our beautiful, immortal bay colt, nothing less...than to change the world.

Posted by: jonna at February 2, 2007 3:03 PM

CHRIS BEYERS: I'm way behind on reading the posts, but regarding the "ICU stall plaque" idea...I know we all want so badly to keep remembering Barbaro, but won't a stall plaque be VERY SAD for Dr. R. and the staff right now?

They are in extreme grief, having "lived" with Barbaro for almost 9 mos. As it is, they're going to be receiving flowers and cards for a while. Each time these things arrive, it reopens the wound. I know that's how I feel when people send me sympathy cards after the loss of a loved one. It doesn't comfort me; it makes me upset all over again.

Dr. R. and the staff might even decide to affix the plaque elsewhere in the hospital, b/c to see it in the ICU stall might be just too much to bear right now. We must think of their very fragile feelings at this time.

Also, we must remember that we've all gone through this at a distance -- vicariously. But they've had to endure this up close and personal -- with Barbaro in the flesh. Has anyone considered that?

Sometimes an idea to do something or to send something helps US, b/c just like when Bobby was alive, we wanted to do something... food... baskets...etc. But now that he's gone, our attempt to do something, might actually be painful for someone else. They're having a hard time even LOOKING at his stall right now.

I just wanted to offer these thoughts for consideration.

Posted by: Spirit Horse, aka Loretta A at February 2, 2007 3:03 PM

Alex,

Thank you for keeping this site open. It is the first place I come to after I get to work each morning. I feel like it's the only place where there are people who really understand how I feel right now. I also want to thank you for the links you have put here to all the wonderful articles that have been written about Barbaro. I have printed most of them and have also printed all the updates that UPenn issued during Barbaro's treatment there. I am keeping a scrapbook/diary about Barbaro and this really helps. Thank you so much.

Kathy,

That is a beautiful and moving poem.

All FOB's,

I'm so glad we have this site where we can commiserate with each other. Not too many people I know really understand how I can be so sad about Barbaro. As usual this morning Barbaro was my first thought when I woke up. All the why's in the world can't change what happened. All the what if's don't really help. I believe in fate to a certain extent and I think that Barbaro's existence on this earth wasn't for the purpose of winning a Triple Crown - although I still believe in my heart that he would have. I think we were given Barbaro so that he could focus attention on advances in equine medicine, laminitis, race track surfaces, horse rescue, horse slaughter and maybe even to show that maybe horses should be running for the Triple Crown at 4 years old rather than 3 years old. I've heard that a 3 year old horse is still just a baby and that their bones are not mature. I wonder if just changing the age from 3 to 4 would really be so bad, even if it does go against all tradition. The spacing of the races should stay the same - that is what makes the Triple Crown such a challenge.

Oh well, I can't claim to be an expert on horses. I really only know what I have learned in the last 9 months on this website. Thank you all for imparting the knowledge that I do have.

I have decided to follow Barbaro's Baby Brother (BBB) and Barbaro's Brother To Be (BBTB) from now on. I hope they inherit at least some of Barbaro's spirit and determination. BBB is very cute and it will be interesting to watch as he develops into a racehorse. He has a look about him. It's a good thing he doesn't know all about his big brother because then he would know what big hoofprints he would have to fill.

I'd better get to work now. As usual, I will be checking back in a couple of hours. I can't seem to stay away.

Posted by: Dale in Aiken SC at February 2, 2007 3:03 PM

After reading many of these posts over the last few days, I finally have something to say.

Being at best a casual follower of horse racing I feel compelled to write. Growing up my dad was a huge fan of horses and racing and I remember watching as a kid Affirmed win the Triple Crown. Over the last few years there has been a lot of attention given to who will finally win it again. After coming close to having a triple crown winner in 04 and 05, Barbaro came along with his impressive Derby win to rekindle the hope of having another great champion. Unfortunately as we all know this was not to be as the same disease that ultimately took Affirmed and Secretariat also took Barbaro at way too early of age.

I have seen some talk about whether he should have run in the Preakness or not. I can in no way offer an educated thought on this, but what I do know is that by running in that race, he went from being a champion to a legendary horse for the ages. Because of that whenever we hear the name Barbaro, we will think of greatness, sadness, devotion, love and courage. All human emotions brought on by the spirit of a special horse.

To the Jackson's, Dr. Richardson, Edgar, Michael, Alex and everyone else, thank you for all that did to raise the spirits of so many people. It would be great if the inspiration inspired by Barbaro and all who cared for him could be transferred to all to make a positive change in this world.

On a side note, I wish someone would come up with a magnetic car sticker symbolizing Barbaro with proceeds supporting the advancement of further medical research.

PS. Maybe the Bears can win on Sunday and provide a momentary distraction.

Posted by: Dave, IL at February 2, 2007 3:06 PM

MIke C

That is a moment that they can never take away from us...THAT WAS REAL!!!

It was so amazing that when you look at it now it almost seems like a camera trick. The absolute EASE of his accelleration. It was Sureal. ANd to me when I see it, I honestly have to say that he STILL did not even look like that was even and effort for him...like "laaa la laa...okay time for me to go a little faster I guess...okay Edgar?"

Magnificent...

Leslie in MN

Posted by: Leslie in MN at February 2, 2007 3:09 PM

Barbaro... NIP NIP NIP!!!!!!! Why did you take the blanke off of me last night and where did you put it? ;-) I can't find my pepperming candy either to take to the horses today. I could have sworn I had three big bags of it..........

Nina,
You have me lasughing...thanks. I am eating a pear and watching it closley that it does not disappear.

Posted by: Renee Antaya at February 2, 2007 3:15 PM

Nancy in CT ~ that is the photo I have on my fridge. I marvel at it every time I look at it. He IS flying!!!!

One observation... has anyone else noticed how his four golden hooves are glowing in the cover photo of the KD book??? He was so far & above the rest... what a guy!

Posted by: Judy in CT at February 2, 2007 3:15 PM

Patty,
Me, too. I light one every day in thanksgiving for Barbaro, for the Jacksons and Dr. Richardson, for comfort and wisdom.

I'd also like to keep lighting them for the FOBs, as we hold each other up and help each other heal.

While Barbaro was alive, it wasn't about us, it was about him. Now, for a little while, it IS about us, about our moving through our grief. That's perfectly appropriate. Beginning now, too, it's about the other horses and for other humans who suffer in various ways; and it will be ALL about them when we have passed through our grief.

Love to you all
Marydel in Colorado

Posted by: Marydel at February 2, 2007 3:16 PM

In memory of Barbaro, do whatever you can, large or small, and continue to give to the laminitis fund.

Do whatever you can, large or small, to help to end horse slaughter.

The power of his life can fuel us from now on to do good where good needs to be done.

Pam

Posted by: Pam M at February 2, 2007 3:19 PM

My heart is filled with SO MUCH gratitude and love that the $29 Movement in Honor of Barbaro is taking off with great success! Thank you so much.

For those who need more information .... here it is:

I posted a "challenge" to everyone to donate $29 to The Fund to Fight Laminitis at UPenn in honor and memory of Barbaro. Why $29? Because Bobby was born on April 29 and he was REBORN on January 29th, so that number becomes very significant to me.

So, for the price of a good lunch or inexpensive dinner ... for the price of a movie, popcorn, soda, etc.... for the price of a decent pair of shoes .... maybe! OR ...

TO SAVE THE LIFE OF A HORSE AND ETCH THE LEGACY OF BARBARO FOREVER, Donate $29 to The Fund to Fight Laminitis at UPenn:

http://www.vet.upenn.edu/giving/laminitisfund_shoe.htm

And, if you care to carry it farther, as I am, I will continue to donate $29 per month, each and every month on the 29th day of the month (excepting February, of course) to The Fund to Fight Laminitis in honor and memory of our Beloved Barbaro.

AND, IF YOU CAN'T SPARE THE FULL $29, then donate $2.90 or $12.90 or $22.90 or $4.29, etc. ... any combination which includes the #29 to honor Barbaro's Birthday and "ReBirthday" ...

We CAN DO THIS ... LET'S SHOW THE NATION AND THE WORLD HOW THE FANS/FRIENDS OF BARBARO BAND TOGETHER FOR THE HORSES! LET THEM SEE OUR GENEROSITY OF HEART, SPIRIT AND "POCKETS" AND LET'S RAISE THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS TO SLAY THE KILLER WHO HAS TAKEN THE LIVES OF OUR HORSES ... LET'S LICK LAMINITIS!!! FOR GOOD!!

And, whatever purchase is made at www.Secretariat.com, a portion of those proceeds goes to laminitis research also!!

Please join this "GRASSROOTS" effort ... it's the little guy that makes the BIG DIFFERENCE and, remember that Bobby always loved his GRASS!!!

Love you all for your tremendously big and compassionate hearts ... GIVE NOW, GIVE TODAY, DONATE OFTEN ...

http://www.vet.upenn.edu/giving/laminitisfund_shoe.htm



Posted by: Linnie at February 2, 2007 3:20 PM

Spirit Horse ... Thank you for posting your thoughts on the ICU stall plaque. The stall plaque was my idea, but now that I have absorbed your words, I am tending to agree with you. It may be like throwing salt into an open wound. I was just trying to do something to honor Barbaro's memory, but it may be too painful for Dr. R and his staff. I can only imagine the pain that they feel every time they walk past it!

Other FOB's ... Please let me know your thoughts before I continue with this project. You can either post here or email me at rs281ms@aol.com. I have already received a tremendous outpouring of support for this project, but Spirit Horse has me thinking ...

Posted by: Ruth Stacey at February 2, 2007 3:21 PM

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LINDA: Are you talking about burying his ashes? Because Barbaro's been cremated. I'm wondering, too, what has been done with them.

Posted by: Spirit Horse, aka Loretta A at February 2, 2007 3:21 PM

Linnie~ re your post from last night about our first 'spat'... You gave me a huge smile on that one!! Parlate italiano perfetto- BRAVA!! The mention of Big Red and the blankets was just for you, my friend and I was hoping you'd catch it. I winked at Barbaro when I sent that to him.... he was in on it. Again, grazie mille!!

Posted by: Judy in CT at February 2, 2007 3:22 PM

Hello FOBs! Good morning Barbaro!

I wanted to say thank you for everyone who was supportive of me last night while I was remembering my friend of some years ago. Because of Barbaro I am planning on visiting her grave for the first time and leaving an encouraging note for her family. I know they still grieve very much for her loss even these many years later.

Also, thank you for all who have lit a candle for my kitty. Not the best news from the vet- instead of dropping, his glucose actually rose- from 420 up to 450 this week.We're not going in the direction that we want to be with him, but we're still working on it. He's a cheerful boy and the vet made a few suggestions that I hope will make great improvements. Like a human diabetic, he'll be going on a special diet. Please continue to support him:
http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/candles.cfm?l=eng&gi=cae

Finally, I know tensions were running high yesterday about the c-word (cremation, not the other c-word!). It seems that tensions run the highest in the afternoon and are calmer in the morning and night. So, please, if you're stressing in the afternoon or the board is getting sharp, just remember that this, too, shall pass. By nighttime we will be friends again :)

Posted by: Jackie from the Frozen Tundra at February 2, 2007 3:25 PM

Kathy,
Thank you so much for your incredibly loving poem, expressing the feelings of so many FOBs. I thought I had my tears under control until I read that! Thank you, thank you, thank you!
Judy

Posted by: Judy at February 2, 2007 3:26 PM

Linda, I agree with you that Barbaro should go home. I think that when he finally knew that the only way he could ever get back home was to forfeit his life, he let Dr. R and the Jacksons know that. Please ... send Barbaro home!

Posted by: Ruth Stacey at February 2, 2007 3:26 PM

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Kathy

Thank you sharing your poem- it is beautiful.

Daphne

Posted by: Daphne at February 2, 2007 3:26 PM

Dave in IL - There actually is a magnetic car sticker that is in the shape of a horseshoe and says "I Love Barbaro." I've had mine since mid-summer and the some of the proceeds go to the Barbaro Fund at New Bolton. It means so much more to me now...

Here is the link if you're interested: http://racingmagnets.com/_wsn/page3.html

Posted by: Chrissy at February 2, 2007 3:26 PM

Ruth - I never thought of it that way, but you're probably right....maybe it would be too tough for them to look at the plaque every day. Maybe the other idea of planting a tree and having a memorial bench is better. Then maybe the staff at New Bolton could go out there when they need a moment of peace and reflection... Just an idea! Thanks again for taking the lead on this project!

Chrissy

Posted by: Chrissy at February 2, 2007 3:29 PM

Judy in CT,
I remember reading that he lifted his legs very high,a sign of a good turf track racer. You can see it in pictures and videos.

Posted by: Renee Antaya at February 2, 2007 3:30 PM

Hey guys...gotta go to work for a while. Blah.
But I will check back in tonight. Looking forward to hopefully another Hennegan video. Those clips of the 'behind the scenes' are bittersweet because it makes me miss Barbaro even more - yet it gives me comfort because I know he is whole again in his glorious spirit.

Posted by: Sarah From NC at February 2, 2007 3:30 PM

RUTH: Thank you. Please discuss this with those who email you, b/c they might not have read my post. You might even keep my post, and copy & paste it in emails back to them so they can read it. The tendency for us to do something for Barbaro's memory is overwhelming...but if it results in pain for others...then we'd only be doing it to make ourselves feel better, and in that case, we'd be selfish. I'm thinking only about these dear people who loved him in person. And remember too...Barbaro DIED IN THAT STALL, in his sling, with the morning crew present.

My fiance dropped dead right in front of me in my bedroom 7 years ago. I would not want a plaque in there to remind me of that.

Love you.

Posted by: Spirit Horse, aka Loretta A at February 2, 2007 3:31 PM

Ruth,
About the plaque. I think Spirt Horse has a point... But so do you.
I think it should still be done, but in time.
Dr.R has been so sad, all you have to do is look in his eyes. In time he will be ready, as will the rest of the staff. I say go ahead with it, just wait a little while before sending it.
That is just my thought. When the time is right and you are ready, please let me know I want to help.
Verna

Posted by: Verna1 at February 2, 2007 3:32 PM

Good Morning Sweet Prince!

How are you today, Dearest Bobby? Running wild and free all around Heaven with your WINGS attached, I see. Are you obeying "Lord Secretariat?" He IS the Top Gun up there you know, so you'd better pay attention or he just might clip those wings. We kow how full of yourself you are these days, so just settle down and listed to Big Red ... he STILL had the fastest Derby time ever, so a little humility and homage goes a long way even though it was YOU who had the widest margin in - 6 1/2 lengths - in 60 years. OK, Secretariat will acquiese on that one because he's the Elder Statesman.

We're all doing what we can down here for you, Sir Barbaro ... yes, we are picking up the gauntlet and taking your challenge to fight Laminitis and kill it forever, and we are doing it in honor of your Birthdate and your "Heavenly Birth Date" ... #29. Yes, that's right, Bobby, we are donating $29 to The Fund to Fight Laminitis at UPenn for as long as we can. This is a Grassroots Movement and we know how much you loved your Grass!

We will DO THIS FOR YOU, BOBBY, AND FOR SECRETARIAT, FOOLISH PLEASURE AND ALL OTHERS who were afflicted by this "Dragon Monster!" Our slogan is "LET'S LICK LAMINITIS!" AND WE WILL!! We will follow your example and persevere and not give up EVER until this battle is won ... WE WILL CARRY ON, BOBBY ... WE KNOW THIS IS WHAT YOU WANT BECAUSE WE KNOW WHAT TOOK YOUR LIFE AND WE WON'T LET IT HAPPEN AGAIN.

So, you wanna know where we are donating all of this money in your honor and memory? Well, it's right out of your NBC home at UPenn ... yep! That's right ...

The Fund to Fight Laminitis at UPenn

http://www.vet.upenn.edu/giving/laminitisfund_shoe.htm

WE WILL NOT LET YOU DOWN!!!

Now, go and play ... run wild, run free but just don't challenge "Big Red" too often ... he just might decide to show you what he's made of and the size of his tremendous heart!!! But what I wouldn't give just once to see a Match Race between the two of you in your Prime!!! Talk about a "Match Made in Heaven" ... WELL ...?!!

LOVE YOU!!

Posted by: Linnie at February 2, 2007 3:32 PM

Ruth,
Maybe a Barbaro plaque placed at the entrance of the
ICU and not actually for his stall...maybe way too
many painful memories and good ones associated with
the stall. They eventually have to use it again to
help another needy horse and we don't want to hang
thoughts of peril on the stall. Or just honor NBC with the plaque and let them place it where they
are most comfortable!

Posted by: Lynn in Austin, Tx at February 2, 2007 3:33 PM

Linnie,
Do you have any idea what has been donated so far? I donated to both.

Posted by: Renee Antaya at February 2, 2007 3:33 PM

Chris Byers and Renee Antaya, What do you think of Spirit Horse's comments regarding the stall plaque?

Posted by: Ruth Stacey at February 2, 2007 3:34 PM

Absolutely fantastic poems, Harriette and Kathy! I am sitting at my computer at work with tears just running down my face! I miss Bobby so much! Even though I haven't posted but once or twice, I have kept up with the updates and FOB messages on a daily basis. I am truly heartbroken! I'm so glad that this site remains open for all of us who love Bobby and other horses as well. Maybe we can keep this going somehow and continue to do Bobby's work. Hopefully, we can all get through this difficult time together!

Posted by: Trish in KC at February 2, 2007 3:34 PM

Linnie -
I'm with you. I intend on donating to the fund every month from now on. Rather than buy that item I just do not need, I am going to put the money in a much better place.
Pam

Posted by: Pam M at February 2, 2007 3:38 PM

Nina,

Seeing him in person at the Derby-he was a magnificent sight-his presence was not of this earth-it was like he had been there before-he knew the routines-he was calm as an early morning sunrise at Fairhill-his coat was glistening in the warm May sun-but it was those eyes.....and as I watched him on the final turn of the Derby, his ears frolicking from front to back, front to back, as if he was listening to Edgar, but saying, "don't worry, I know where to go, have faith in me"....every race he ran, he knew when the time was right to make his move-watch his past races and you'll see how the fourth turn was his cue to eliminate the rest of the field. He had human qualities, like the ability to communicate strength, determination, and eventually, unfortunately pain....But fear not, as I said before, he will be back-and you will just know it's him.....

Posted by: chris at February 2, 2007 3:39 PM

FOR RUTH STACEY ...

Spirit Horse ... Thank you for posting your thoughts on the ICU stall plaque. The stall plaque was my idea, but now that I have absorbed your words, I am tending to agree with you. It may be like throwing salt into an open wound. I was just trying to do something to honor Barbaro's memory, but it may be too painful for Dr. R and his staff. I can only imagine the pain that they feel every time they walk past it!

Other FOB's ... Please let me know your thoughts before I continue with this project. You can either post here or email me at rs281ms@aol.com. I have already received a tremendous outpouring of support for this project, but Spirit Horse has me thinking ...

Posted by: Ruth Stacey at February 2, 2007 3:21 PM
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This was my only concern also ... I think it's a brilliant idea but I would first make sure that it's something that everyone connected to Barbaro would accept and agree to, especially Dr. Richardson for so many reasons that we already know and understand. I think that if you were to get acceptance and approval from The Jacksons and Dr. Richardson and staff, that's good enough for me, too. Again, I think the honor is fantastic, Ruth ... but I would proceed lightly and cautiously on this and be sure it's what "they" would like to see each day on that stall door.

Good Luck, Ruth ... I hope they do agree ... it's a magnificent thought ...

Posted by: Linnie at February 2, 2007 3:40 PM

Good morning everyone,

Harriette and Kathy, your poems helped me tremendously today, as they have everyone. Thank you for sharing your talent. Truly memorable.

Please everyone, take time today to call your representatives to get the anti-slaughter bill passed. Just take a few minutes today to make those calls, asking for their support. Then, talk to co-workers, friends, get them to call too. Think Domino Effect getting the Barbaro Effect done.

And Lyn G, you know I'll be with you in spirit tomorrow as you venture to Fair Hill. I'm sure you're looking forward to seeing Luke. Have a wonderful time my friend.

Posted by: Skyler at February 2, 2007 3:41 PM

RUTH: Why can't the hospital be allowed to decide where they want to place the items sent to them? I'm sure they will be receiving things from all over the world. They might even be planning to dedicate a wall somewhere in the hospital for their beloved patient's memorabilia.

Posted by: Spirit Horse, aka Loretta A at February 2, 2007 3:42 PM

Ruth,
My feelings since I am involved with you are,the placque will hurt at the beginning I feel as time goes on the hurt will change to comfort.As Dr.R.said Barbaro had a lot of good days. The entrance to the ICU would be nice also.
Spirit Horse does have a point. I would like to find a plaque where a picture of the Great One could be placed. Just an idea.

Posted by: Renee Antaya at February 2, 2007 3:42 PM

Repost....such important information!!


STATEMENT SENT TO US FROM SENATOR LANDRIEU...

"Barbaro was an inspiration not only to equestrians and horse lovers, but to all Americans. I hope that his memory will serve as added motivation in our continued fight for the safety and welfare of horses,and his legacy will serve as an inspiration to get the Virgie S. Arden
American Horse Slaughter Prevention Act passed through Congress."
Senator Landrieu
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Hard as it is, this is the perfect opportunity to make our push. If Mrs. Jackson has the presence of mind and composure to open this door, we owe it to her and her horse to follow her lead. Through the grief of their loss, the Jackson's made a valiant effort to make the public aware of the horse slaughter issue in this country. If they can do it, so can we!

While I know we are all overwhelmed by sadness, this is the time to make our voices heard. Millions of people heard about the horrors of horse slaughter this week on Larry King and in several published news articles. We cannot let this opportunity get away from us.

In Barbaro's honor, please contact your congressman and two senators and urge them to join us. This is also the time to contact everyone you know and ask them to do the same. Right now the window of opportunity has been opened.......Barbaro opened that window for us and we can't let him down. We must continue his work.

This week we picked up 15 additional co-sponsors........AWFB (another win for Barbaro). Let's try to get AWFB every day until we end horse slaughter once and for all!!

Shelley and Debra

Posted by: Skyler at February 2, 2007 3:42 PM

****Laurie H in MN

Your post broke my heart last night. Believe in Barbaro, he is with you. When you see what he had me do you will know it is from him. I wish I could be there when your mail is delivered.

Harriette Brillianthawk

Posted by: Harriette at February 2, 2007 3:43 PM

Hi ,
How do I become part of the forum. I really have formed a bond with all of you during this hard week. I would like to be part of the weekend in April and just to be able to e-mail some of you with my thoughts and feelings. For instance I am very sad and angry that our local news reported that 2 horses were shot in the head over the weekend,one died. After this horrible week that news just hit me so hard. What kind of a creature could do that to an animal. Thanks for allowing me to vent.Betsy eah4762@aol.com

Posted by: Betsy at February 2, 2007 3:43 PM

Not even an hour and I'm back. I got my limited edition Barbaro hat today. It's wonderful and I'm so glad I have it. It came with a post card and a certificate of authenticity signed by the Jacksons. The back says Barbaro Fund New Bolton. I'm glad the proceeds are going to laminitis research.

I think only FOBs could understa